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Monday, November 5, 2012

An Election We Don't Want to Miss


I decided to write a blog post today (despite being home with a migraine) about why I think it’s important to vote and why I am voting the way I am.  I generally veer away from political blog posting because I think most people are sick of politics at the end of the day, but this election is different. We are at a crossroads as a nation and as a planet. This could be the election that determines how we face the future and all of its incredibly complex possibilities.

First, a little bit about why you should vote.  Statistically, your vote counts more than you think it does. I live in a state that has been labeled “red,” and yet I could give you dozens of examples of how this is not entirely true. If you looked at just the Kansas City and St. Louis regions’ voting records, for example, you’d be scratching your head.  Red state?  Really?  It’s out-state Missouri that tips the state into the Republican basket, and even those votes are up for grabs on lots of occasions. This is a state that has only had one Republican governor in the past 20 years.  The relevance of this is that every vote in this state is statistically important.  While it might look bad for Barack Obama in Missouri, it is entirely possible that Claire McCaskill could keep her senate seat, which will have a not-insubstantial impact on the make-up of the United States Senate and the federal legislative process as a whole.  So if you think your vote isn’t important, please think again.

The second reason to vote is this:  Because you can.  I remember somebody saying in the 1980s (maybe it was Gil Scott Heron, a great voice we lost this past year) that people in this country don’t exercise a right that people in other countries would willingly die for. We take our freedom for granted.  Sometimes people don’t vote because they think it doesn’t matter (see previous paragraph), and sometimes because they feel disillusioned.  This is my take:  When I exit the voting booth, it is the greatest feeling in the world. I leave with a smile on my face and an upbeat mood that stays with me all day. I leave feeling like I’ve done my part as a citizen of the world. There is literally nothing else that leaves me feeling that way.  Giving blood, donating to a good charity, raising a good kid – these all signify responsible citizenship, but for me, nothing compares to voting.  Nothing.

As for my personal candidate selection process, this is how I make my decision:  I look at the integrity of the individual and at the choices he or she has made in his or her life as well as their stand on issues.  Issues are important, don’t get me wrong, but even though I am pro-choice, I would vote for a pro-life candidate if he or she got 60 to 70 percent of everything else right.  I think single-issue voting is dangerous for such a complex society as the one we have in America

I also look at the candidate’s vision.  There are no easy decisions any more (if there ever were), and this year’s presidential election exemplifies that.  Europeans laugh at us because they can’t see a single damned difference between our two major party candidates for president. And to be sure, at first glance, the differences seem insubstantial.  This year, both candidates are men (again).  Both have supported some form of universal healthcare. Both say they want to reduce federal spending, raise taxes on the wealthy, and help the middle class. Both display compassion for their fellow Americans.  Both are wealthy.

Really, and I say this as a die-hard liberal, but truly I don’t see a lot of difference between them.  One is pro-choice and the other is pro-life, but as I mentioned above, that is not enough for me. What I am looking for is a vision.  I’m looking for a vision of the future that is hopeful and optimistic.  I am a hopeless optimist.  When I look at the east coast today and how they are coping, I see resilience.  I see Americans at their best, against all odds, and it makes me smile. THAT is what I want in my president. I want someone who doesn’t let the negative voices weigh him down.  I want someone who will fight for me. I want someone who sees the glass half full and is ready to top it off.

I know my Republican friends think that government is too big (I don’t disagree) and they fear that Barack Obama will only make it bigger, but I have to tell you:  He is my candidate. I respect Mitt Romney for his values, but I do not believe he has the strength of character to make this world a better place – to fight for me or to fight for my children and their future.  I do think Mr. Obama does.  I am willing to give him another term and another chance to implement his vision.

So…I hope to see you all at the polls tomorrow and on Twitter and Facebook tomorrow night as we all partake of that every-four-year American phenomenon called Election Night.  Here’s hoping for a pre-midnight bedtime for us all.